Eithernet address is why dont it match

shouldn’t it match all my other network starting with 192.168.0.???

It should.

No, read this http://packetlife.net/blog/2008/sep/24/169-254-0-0-addresses-explained/

I know that but how do i fix

Don’t use DHCP. Set box IP manually, preferably outside your routers DHCP range.

try that it wont save not sure i am setting it right if i go wireless i get the 192 and can putty in still cant see the box on my windows network

I remember getting this when my DTB wast not quite the correct one.

Yep, most likely a DTB problem.